On our very very first date, in the middle of that embarrassing getting-to-know-each-other conversation, George asked me what sort of individual I happened to be drawn to. We thoughtfully responded: “Goal driven. Smart. Sensitive. Common sense of humor. ” Once I asked him exactly the same concern in exchange, their response had been quick and concise: “Jewish. ” When we squeezed him for a description, he previously no difficulty telling me personally which he enjoyed dating Jewish ladies because he discovered them become smart, funny and often brunette. I happened to be amused and notably flattered.
It had been throughout that exact same date that i ran across George had been Puerto Rican, one thing an even more enlightened girl might have recognized considering their final title is Santiago. I did son’t respond well, saying anything from “but you don’t look Puerto Rican” to “I don’t date Puerto Ricans. ”
We had worked together at a marketing rep company for the months that are few we decided to a night out together with him. Though we thought he had been sweet and funny, I'd simply experienced an unpleasant breakup along with no curiosity about dating. We had recently relocated to Manhattan, pleased to have remaining behind the full years invested in Gainesville, Florida, where I'd finished through the University of Florida.